It’s only natural to want to know what you’re stepping into. And while this isn’t a checklist, it is a look inside: the way I connect, the energy I bring, and the care I pour into each moment. If there’s something you’re hoping for, you’re always welcome to ask. In the meantime this won’t tell you everything, but hopefully it’ll tell you enough.

My scars always seem to start conversations before I do. Sometimes I see a flicker of pity before I even speak to someone and I always want to whisper that I’m fine. Our scars tell our stories yes, but these are very old chapters, and they always healed so quickly anyway, as if they were telling me to let things go…

Some words just find a home in you. These are the lines, lyrics, and little moments I’ve carried. Serendipitous gifts from strangers, stories, and songs that found me when I wasn’t looking. I’ve held them close for years. Maybe something here stays with you too.

Who says we have to start on January 1st? On Sunday bright and early? After a breakup or a birthday? Start mid-week. Start mid-year. Start at…